The Path of Wellbeing

Who Are We Beyond Our Suffering?

Aug 02, 2025

Ironic huh?
We crave relief from suffering
Yet we grasp tightly to the details of our pains and stories.

Using them as reference points to prop up a familiar sense of a “me.”
Albeit, a me with pain and struggle.

We’ll do almost anything to attempt to have a defined self.
It is an innocent impulse to know who we are, however misguided.

So now, in this moment of your life, experiment …
Compassionately allowing for your life events to be –
Consider being here without those events creating a “me.”

Sound strange? If you’re willing, ask yourself …
What remains without being defined?

What remains beyond the mind’s rebellion against this experiment?
And beyond any impulse to hold on – or defend your suffering?
And beyond whatever is here next?

Take a breath. Lower your shoulders.

In the end, what is aware of this moment; your stories, the air
on your skin ...

... compassionately allowing what is – and yet not defined by any of it.

What remains that swallows all definitions?
What is here that a word can never touch?

 

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